The visitor moved between fear of leaving and exhaustion from years of distance and conflict. The reading did not infer divorce from the Spouse Palace; it separated safety, respect, willingness to repair, children, and finances. She obtained independent legal and financial information, tried structured conversation and couples counseling when safe, and set a review period. Staying or leaving should follow facts, values, and bearable consequences—not a “divorce destiny.” Control or violence requires a safety plan first.