Yes — often with painful clarity.
If your Spouse Star (Officer for women, Wealth for men) is actually your taboo or unfavorable God, the partners you naturally attract may drain, control, or destabilize you. Your chart has a "magnetic pull" toward a specific energetic dynamic — and if that dynamic is harmful, you repeat the pattern.
For example, a weak Fire Day Master woman whose chart requires Wood (Resource) may find her Spouse Star is Water (Officer). Water extinguishes Fire. She'll attract strong, controlling partners who overwhelm her — not because she's unlucky, but because her chart's relationship template is intrinsically challenging.
The solution isn't to stop dating. It's to understand the template and consciously choose differently — perhaps a partner whose element supports rather than controls, even if the initial "chemistry" feels less familiar.